Like
all kids growing up, at times I felt out of place—at school, at church, with
friends and even in my own family.
In early elementary school, I longed to play the more organized games of
the “big kids,” making myself out of place with my peers but not belonging with
the older students. Like many
others, this feeling grew as I entered the awkward stage of life that is
adolescence and was bolstered by the themes of many coming of age stories. Like Salinger’s Catcher in the Rye and the Disney classic Beauty and the Beast, the account many young people hear is that leaving
home—especially for those from small towns and the middle of the country—is the
path to success and shedding the feeling of not fitting in.
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My son is very smart for his age, and wants to play with much older kids, but he is too young for them to want to play with him. So I'm realizing that he is going through the same experiences as you are.
ReplyDeleteYes, it is pretty common! Hope he learns to play with the kids his age- it is really good for friendships, even if the intelligence doesn't match up.
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